Jan. 3rd, 2004 @ 09:47 pm
Ah, so today I wake up to find a message from the said girl that was suppose to hang out with me New Years. The IM message was this:
hey cloveking... sorry i havent returned your call, as you know i was in GA... until new years eve, when i had to rush back to danville, due to my grandfather being admited into the hospital... because they think he had a stoke, and he had stopped breathing on the way to the hospital(he has emphazima and now has pneumonia in both lungs)... anyways, once i got home, i was at the hospital most of the night and day on new years, b/c they really didnt know how this was going to end up... but now, he is doing better, and is slowly getting his health back... i just thought i would let you know, where i disappeared to, and why i didnt call you. im sorry cloveking
also, i couldnt exactly call you while in georiga, due to myself being a complete IDIOT and forgetting my cell phone chargers... i didnt even get your msg until early on new years day.
anyways, i hope you have a great day!
So what do you all think about this?
Try talking to her more and getting to know her. You didn't click with the New Year's girl, but you might with this one. She might just be a little shy in person.
You know what would be really sweet? Send her an e-card hoping her grandfather feels better. I think americangreetings.com has free e-cards where you can basically put in your own message.
i say "forgive but don't forget" ...forgive her..and see what happens... if she pulls this shit again..then forget bout her.. but give her the benefit of the doubt this time.
|Date:||January 4th, 2004 04:42 am (UTC)|| |
Yeah, I say give her the benefit of the doubt...
*owch* dontcha feel like a bastard?
but then, some people *always* have the best excuses.
sounds sincere. if its a lie..its quite an elaborate one. but i'd
give her at least one more chance.
Quite honestly it sounds like a very elaborate excuse to me, but I have to go with the rest of them and say give her one more chance in light of all of that.
the ecard thing would be really sweet... i'd definately say give her a second chance... :) at least a second chance ;) if she pulls this again though - you might ought to seriously reconsider
hmmmmmm...i don't know about this one. be cautious..there is a chance that she is being truthful, but there is also a big chance that she is not. so just proceed with caution..don't completely rule her out, but don't put to much effort into her yet either.
seriously? the whole forgot-my-cellphone-chargers is kind of lame, and i don't believe it. I think if her grandfather really was sick (still not convinced), she just got caught up in it and forgot to call you. In which case, that excuse would have done just as well as forgot the charger. But why was the phone completely dead in the first place? Obviously, you would have to be talking on it. And if she used the phone to call other people, she could have called you.
I guess you don't have to write her off, but she still sounds flaky to me.
so i have to agree with oh_happy_days, in that there is a chance she's not being truthful.
So, what I think you should do is this: Don't make plans with her. Just call her up once in a while if you're bored and if she is available when you call her, go out on the spur of the moment. Treat the situation like she treats it.
I T-Totally agree with infrogpajamas
. She sounds flaky, but not so bad as to give up yet. I would be all-in if I was betting on her lying at least partially on this. But, I wouldn't drop her, she at least wants to give it a shot, and I'd say try it. Just don't revolve your life around her ;)
Oh wait, that's for us to decide anyways ;)
My vote is just keep it on the back burner too. Say if you set a date with her and something better comes up, you should definitely do the something better. :)
|Date:||January 4th, 2004 11:06 pm (UTC)|| |
i agree with the rest of the people...forgive her, but keep it in the back of your mind and see if more stuff like this happens again.
once your life is decided can you all decide mine?
dude this totally sucks...you dont even post everyday ..so how can we decide your life?